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Bleeding Love

Bleeding Love

Bleeding Love

The poem below is a fair description of what happens to women when they experience severe trauma and abuse throughout their lives.  When a woman reaches a point such as this, it’s time to get some help from healers who don’t just work with the mind.  Trauma gets stuck in the body via cellular memory and congregates around certain parts of the body, sometimes manifesting as cancer.  When there is a lot of stored pain in the body, you have to let it go. It’s the only way to heal. Some of you will easily be able to relate to this poem… Continue Reading

The Purpose of Relationship

The Purpose of Relationship

The Purpose of Relationship

Ultimately, The Purpose of Relationship is to become the most loving individual whom you can be.
Robert Holden, Ph.D.

As human beings, we love to have friends and loved ones nearby. We are part of a community – a group of people – and we need to communicate if we want to be accepted and respected by other people who are in our group. As soon as we were born, we began creating relationships. We relate to our parents and family members every day. As we grow, we establish new relationships with friends and teachers at school, with other people in our community, with colleagues at work and in every group we decide to join. Continue Reading

Love on Its Own Isn’t Enough

Love on Its Own Isn't Enough

Love on Its Own Isn’t Enough

To make a relationship work you’ll need more than to simply love one another. Love on Its Own Isn’t Enough. Many relationships fail even when two people love one another. The reason? Well, to start with, many, many people think that being derisive in the manner that they speak to their partner is okay, or they think that treating their partner badly will be forgiven. After all, they’re married, aren’t they? People only fool themselves when they make assumptions like that. If you want your relationship to be great, you need to make sure that your partner feels loved.

Sо then, whаt actions will create the experience of love? Love is created by giving your partner your full attention, and by giving him or her the gift of acceptance and appreciation. Notice how you feel when someone looks at you when he or she talks with you and actually pays attention, and then genuinely accepts and appreciates you and your opinion on things. It feels great, doesn’t it?! You feel better about yourself and better about the individual with whom you are speaking. Continue Reading