Do You Believe in Love?
Many of my callers phone to ask when they will meet their soulmate. This question comes up for almost everyone. However, it’s not a matter of ‘when’ in many cases, rather it’s a matter of ‘if’. If I were to ask you Do You Believe in Love, most people would say “Yes of course”. But deep down inside they’ve had so many disappointments that it’s no longer a known given, it’s only a hope.
Hope vs Knowing
Unfortunately, people go through the motions of trying to find a partner without truly believing or knowing that there’s someone there for them. Without ‘knowing’ that you’re going to have a long term relationship, it’s very hard to manifest one. In fact, it’s almost impossible. Let’s look at how to change that.
Okay, so going from hoping to knowing is a process. It requires you to do some inner work to change your current state of mind about the subject. You have to look back to the last time you thoroughly KNEW that you’d meet a partner for a long term relationship. Then you have to get back into that same state of mind, if indeed you have once known what it was like to feel that way.
Combined with Right Action
Due to the disappointments and failures of what is often many attempts to create a relationship, people become disillusioned and disheartened by the whole process of finding someone. They live in hope, but they don’t put in any of the right actions to help create the situation to come about.
One woman recently phoned me to find out when the next relationship was coming for her. When I looked, I could see that she was doing absolutely nothing to bring this outcome about. She wasn’t placing herself in the right place at the right time for her soulmate to find her. Also, she wasn’t going out to meet people. Nor was she socialising with anyone, and she wasn’t on dating sites… nothing! I could see that the next relationship was five years away for this woman if she didn’t change what she was doing now. She of course would not have wanted to hear that.
It’s a Process
Life only manifests when we work with our mind to bring about the things we desire. Then we need to take the necessary steps to make it happen. It’s a multi-step process if you want something to appear in your life.
If you’ve reached a point where you no longer believe that you can have a relationship, you can change that. Perhaps you’ve had a series of disappointments, so first you must fix your damaged point of view. Work with affirmations to overwhelm the mind with positivity. There’s lots of free tools available on youtube so that you can work on fixing that part of yourself. It doesn’t have to cost you a cent if you do your research.
Present Yourself Properly
Then, go out and buy a lovely set of clothes to dress up in when you go out to meet your next partner. Do your hair, keep your teeth and breath clean and fresh, mind your manners, and soon you’ll be meeting the one you have been waiting for. As Wayne Dyer once said, “You’ll see it when you believe it!”, and not a minute beforehand either.
If you’d like to meet someone special for a long term relationship, there’s a new Australian match-making service starting very shortly. Keep your eye out for when it is ready to launch. Here’s the link: LoveHonourandRespect.Me