High vs Low Energy Personalities
There are four personality types that belong in the category of the Positives. We all fluctuate from one energy dynamic to another at different times, however, some people’s own personal energy mostly spends time in the Positive group. Positive/High Energy people are great to have around! Here’s a description of the various aspects of the different positive personality types, ie High vs Low Energy Personalities:
Constant High Vibrations
You’re pretty much always buzzing. A real live wire who loves to be around others and whom others love to be around. You have an enormous amount of energy and can go for hours and hours and not feel tired. You’re often up late working on projects and then up early again without too many hours sleep. Talking with you is like plugging into an electrical socket to receive a burst of energy and a lift. The only downside for you though is that others will often get addicted to you. Hence, you may find that they won’t leave you alone. Share your enthusiasm with people, but if they aren’t sending energy back your way, limit the amount of access that they have to you.
Happy and Smiling
You’re generally very positive and you’re happy almost always. However, you don’t have quite the same level of energy as someone who falls into the Constant High Vibrations (CHV) group. In other words, you need your 7 hours sleep per night! By the time midnight comes around, you are really worn out and it’s time for bed. You’re the kind of person that others can laugh with and whom they enjoy having around. Earlier in the day you’ve got enough energy to skip down the road hand in hands with your friends. Yet your energy runs out earlier than the CHVers. You have a positive attitude about most things.
Undivided and Attentive Listener
You have the most amazing ability to hear between the lines of what others are saying. Your ears aren’t the only part of you that you listen with. Eyes and your feelings are used as well. You also know when someone is not being truthful. Others can feel the positivity that you exude without necessarily saying anything, but that’s what they love about you. They feel supported by the fact that they can open up to you and tell you all sorts of things that they would never say to anyone else. People know that they aren’t being judged by you, and they know that you’ll not repeat what they tell you to others.
When you listen, you really do listen, and you only say the occasional comment which is always perfectly timed and always completely appropriate. People love to spend time with you and they feel very much supported by you. You are important to many people’s growth because you help them to feel valued. For you though, you need another Undivided and Attentive Listener in your own life, because sometimes you need someone to chat to also.
Teachers, Mentors and Coaches
Often, psychic readers fall into this category. Essentially you’re the type of person who has just the right piece of wisdom at the time that others need to hear it. You can inspire and give hope to the hopeless. You show genuine interest in helping the people who come to you for assistance as it is part of your job to help them. However, it’s what you would do anyway even if you weren’t being paid. Usually, your contact with those whom you assist is a once-a-week situation. Occasionally it is a once-a-month situation, but either way you’re there to offer a verbal helping hand. This helps people climb up from where they find themselves now.
Balancers and Grounders
Secondly, there are three personality types that belong in the category of the Balancers and Grounders. We all fluctuate from one energy dynamic to another at different times, however, some people’s own personal energy mostly spends time in the Middle Balance group. Balancers and Grounders are very refreshing to have around. Here’s a description of the various aspects of the different balancing and grounding personality types:
Grounded, Quiet Stabiliser
Inspiring and rejuvenating, you don’t have to make a show of yourself. You’re the type of individual that others feel they can just sit quietly with in a park or garden. They don’t feel pressured to have to say a word. You’re not ostentatious in the slightest: you don’t feel the need to brag and boast. You’re so cool that you don’t even know it. You help others to relax just by your very presence, and those who spend time with you come away feeling restored.
Constructive Feedback Supplier
You say what needs to be said, whether the guy or girl you’re talking to wants to hear it or not. It’s what they need to hear, even though you may get labelled as being negative. You have their best interest in mind, and only want to help them avoid getting tangled in a knot on their journey through life. Be careful though, because being blatantly honest isn’t what is always needed. Sometimes people just need encouragement, not constructive criticism. So on occasions just overlook their mistakes and simply give them encouragement so that they don’t get too disheartened. If someone does come to you to ask for advice, offer it softly and gently, but honestly.
Changing and Growing
You’re on a quest to grow and get to know who you are, and you’re changing those aspects of yourself that need addressing. Sometimes you get a little impatient and frustrated because the journey is long and it isn’t easy. You seek out various mentors, coaches and other positives to talk to, but one thing you need to watch is that you don’t drain too much time or energy from these people. You must learn to develop your own strength and not borrow it from others.
However, keep up the good work because you are definitely on your way towards your own unfoldment and the discovery and realisation of your ultimate and true self. Don’t be offended when your mentor or teacher says that they aren’t in the mood to talk – it generally means that he or she feels that they need some time to themselves and that they haven’t got enough spare energy to give to you right now.
Mismatched and Low Energies
Lastly, there are four personality types that belong in the category of the Mismatched and Low Energies. We all fluctuate from one energy dynamic to another at different times, however, either your own personal energy or the energy of someone close to you that is smothering, suffocation or abusing you, mostly spends time in the Mismatched and Low Energies group. Mismatched and Low Energy people can be very hard to cope with having around. The Mismatched can make you doubt yourself and your decisions. The Low Energy people can drain you of your energy, and when you step away from them you feel exhausted. Here’s a description of the various aspects of the different Mismatched and Low Energies personality types:
Caught on a Mouse Wheel
You are still stuck in a problem that you have been moaning about for years. Your complaints don’t change: you whinge and whine about the same old issues year in, year out, sometimes for decades. Others eventually begin to avoid you, which causes you to be without any long-term friends. If this is you, take hold of yourself, realise what you are doing and stop doing it. If you know someone like this, say to them that you don’t want to talk about their problem anymore. Tell them that you understand that they feel upset by it all, but that you’d like to discuss other things from now on. “Let’s talk about new topics from now on,” would be a great way to handle someone like this.
You use all the right words so that you sound positive, and you would normally get away with it except for the fact that there’s no real substance to your positivity. Your enthusiasm is a type of “skin-deep” sincerity that isn’t real. If someone in your life is like this, a good way to tell if they genuinely are positive or not is to measure how you feel when they walk away. Do you feel rejuvenated or drained? Does your skin crawl when they’re around? Or, if you’re the one who is the Pretender, do you have that same effect on others? Better change real quick if you do!
With some individuals it’s easy to tell that they are being fake. With others, it’s not so easy. The most important aspect of being around people like this is the effect they have on you. Do they drag you down or are you able to keep their energy at bay? Far enough at bay so that it doesn’t latch onto yours and either drain you or push you into reacting negatively to what they have to say. Some Pretenders like to bait you, so be aware of that.
You have a very bright mind, and you are interesting and creative. However, for some reason whenever you are around others, you cause them to make bad choices or decisions. None of you are bad people, it’s just that your energies are mismatched. The one who is like this just affects you in some way that is difficult to describe. It’s difficult to spot them too, because there’s nothing really bad about who they are. Yet, if you were to spend a lot of time in his or her company it would mean that you’d get pulled off your own path and onto another, one that is somewhere between yours and theirs.
The way to measure if their company is good for you or not is to ask yourself the following questions: Are you still able to make all of your own decisions that take you towards your goals? Or do the suggestions that he or she makes about your opinions or choices push you a little to one side or the other? Do they cause you to not align with the path that is best for you? Is he or she like a silent magnet, pulling you off your course in life? Are you doing that to others? If so, then realise that your energies are mismatched.
If someone else is doing that to you, then don’t see them very often, and keep the time short or avoid them altogether. It’s like being allergic to penicillin – if you have a bad reaction to it, then don’t take it.
You drain others of energy and when you are around others they shut down. You also zap them when you’re able. You’re scathing and cutting, always pointing out the worst in someone else, even hiding behind sarcasm in an attempt to get away with it. The problem is, that sarcasm doesn’t hide a person’s true intentions. You can say to them that you were just being “sarcastic”, however, people aren’t stupid and they know that behind the sarcasm you meant what you said. People will quickly get rid of you out of their life, because essentially you’re toxic! Toxic as all hell.
Begin the process of working upon yourself so that you’ll change, because you just never know when the Karma train will come around the next bend in life and you’ll find yourself catching it and going somewhere you didn’t want to go.
So there you have it. Those are the three levels of energy that are exuded by different people. I hope that you enjoyed reading my article!
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